tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4669055632604883890.post6523685302157804688..comments2023-04-26T10:58:05.940+01:00Comments on My Ponderings: Short blog: Is it better to be honest about being child-free?ElizabethR1533http://www.blogger.com/profile/01006378624986983074noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4669055632604883890.post-51192070438543984262014-01-21T07:54:14.336+00:002014-01-21T07:54:14.336+00:00Its best to be honest on the first two questions. ...Its best to be honest on the first two questions. <br /><br />If someone were to ask me,<br /><br />"What would you do if you got pregnant?"<br /><br />That's pushing it. I find it rude when people ask that. Either theyre being "innocently" curious, or looking to judge and criticise or starting an irrelevant argument.<br /><br /> I would tell them-<br /><br />"It's none of you're business."<br />"I know you're curious but tell me the REAL motivation behind this question?"<br />"I know you're curious but why do you ask?"<br />"I don't owe you an explanation, it's my life why don't you worry about you."<br /><br />As for the last question, I would tell them its none of their business if you don't want them to know.<br /><br />It's best to keep some things private. Ive been bingoed before a few times, It might be alot more coming on the way when I reach mid 20's to 30's. Im not much of an open book. Some people aren't so nice when it comes to opinions or personal life choices. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4669055632604883890.post-14235883487347459702012-05-25T16:35:51.836+01:002012-05-25T16:35:51.836+01:00I think it's better to be honest. But I also t...I think it's better to be honest. But I also think it's not someone else's business if you don't want to tell them. I'm actually planning on eventually posting on that sometime because even before I decided I didn't want kids it drove me crazy when people pried about when we're going to have kids or if we're trying yet (the when and the yet got me the most because it assumes we couldn't decide not to have any ever, which we did). If someone asked what I'd do if I got pregnant I'd probably say "Let's put it this way...I wouldn't stay pregnant".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com